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You'll never know. Book 1, A good and decent man
2009
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WHAT happened to Carol Tyler's father as a staff sergeant in the Army during World War II wasn't unusual. As she puts it in this remarkable memoir, "'You'll Never Know,'" he's "a member of a huge, exclusive community": 16 million American soldiers went off to war, and the ones who came back got on with their lives, or tried to. For nearly 60 years, he didn't talk about the war, even with his family. A proud, resourceful blue-collar craftsman, he could be taciturn and irritable; the relics of his military service in his garage fell into "the category of 'leave it the hell alone' or 'it's none of your goddamn business.'" As Tyler spells out on one page, rebus-style, "not all scars are visible." Then, one day in 2002, he called his daughter and opened up. (Tyler's rendition of the phone call that set this book in motion: "Hey, Dad! What's up?" "Rivers of blood!") she captured a few hours of his recollections on videotape, although he clammed up again when he got to the subject of Italy, where something awful apparently happened. As this volume (the first of three) ends, we still don't know what it was, although her art and his fading memory are circling warily around it. The tent poles of this book, subtitled "'A Good and Decent Man,'" are two brief sequences of an "Army scrapbook" Tyler made for him - not the photos he's held on to for decades, but sepia-toned cartoons, annotated with entertaining bits of his narration. He slept on a gun turret to avoid snakes; he set up a shower in the North African desert and was delighted that a sheik's "harum" used it. Still, the book is less about his experiences in the Army than everything that radiated out from them: the way they shaped the rest of his life, as well as his wife's and daughter's and granddaughter's lives. One resonance of the title is the World War II-era song of the same name; in part, this is a portrait of his 60-year romance with Tyler's mother. Another is that, as the author puts it, "you would never know" what had happened to him from the postwar life he constructed - the war may be the central fact of his psychological makeup, but he tried, with some success, to bury it "under tons of mental concrete." When her father told her his story, Tyler's own life was in flux: as we see in the book, her husband, the underground cartoonist Justin Green, had recently left her for a former baby sitter - although he was thinking about coming back - and she had moved from California to Ohio with their teenage daughter, Julia. (The book's acknowledgments include thanks to "Justin and Julia Green for support and for keening it interesting.") It's easy to see echoes of her father's dedication and grudging optimism, as well as his capacity for sublimating painful feelings in endless craft and construction projects, in what Tyler shows us of her open-hearted relationships with all of them and her stoic perseverance in dealing with her own downturns. "'You'll Never Know'" unfolds like a rambling reminiscence, except without the boring parts. It skitters around in time, every observation setting off another memory or meditation or visual flourish. Tyler's artwork flutters between representation, fantasy and symbolism, sometimes even in the same panel, but her stylistic virtuosity is a steadfast guide through her chronology's loops and pivots. On one page, she shows us an imagined scene in her family's backyard in the early '50s - kids playing in buckets of water, her mother hanging up a towel reading "Always Do Your Best," a TV set and a pair of pedal pushers floating in midair - then carefully annotates the anachronisms. She draws her father as a sturdy young man in an Army helmet and as a grouchy retiree in a trucker's cap, but also as a little boy in church with a halo floating over his horns, as a fox seeking out a peach labeled "Mom," and as a tree trying to teach fortitude to its fragile sapling of a daughter. Tyler has been drawing comics on and off since the 1980s; her 2005 collection of short pieces is aptly titled "Late Bloomer." She was a painter before she was a cartoonist, though, and she's adapted some painterly techniques to comics, even beyond her magisterial sense of color (she drew this project with 53 custom-mixed inks). Every panel is lush with visual and psychological detail. Her swooping ink lines have the fluidity and force of paint, and she treats the borders of her pages and images as frames, sometimes solid and unassuming but more often decorative or permeable or even broken. In one sequence, a despondent Tyler falls through the base of a panel and onto the bottom of the page, only to be scolded by her father in his easy chair ("Whaddya think you're layin' on!! Get up!!!") and an imaginary elf that we've earlier seen telling him to "keep your feelings secret!" He does, for the most part. But it's only in the final few pages of this volume that we fully understand what that has cost him and his family. As autumn turns to winter, a gust of wind that steals his hat becomes Hitler in his aging mind. Meanwhile, Tyler imagines herself stumbling into the "rivers of blood" that her father saw in "It'ly"; as she researches what might have happened to him, he explodes with fury over his delusion that she's stolen the Army pictures he loaned her. It's impossible not to compare "'You'll Never Know'" with Art Spiegelman's "Maus," the first great graphic novel about what happened to a cartoonist's father during World War II. They're very different sorts of books, though, in both their means and their ends. "Maus" is largely Vladek Spiegelman's own testimony amplified by the book's abject, minimal style and the allegory of its cat-and-mouse imagery, and is only secondarily about its creator's relationship with his father and his struggle with the enormity of his topic. Tyler's book is a vivid, affecting, eccentrically stylish frame built around a terrible silence. World War II was a crucible for Tyler's father, but for decades he buried it 'under tons of mental concrete.' Douglas Wolk is the author of "Reading Comics: How Graphic Novels Work and What They Mean." He writes frequently about comics for The Times.
Library Journal Review
A newly single parent trying to understand her middle-aged self, Carol Tyler sets out to find the real human being and the real soldier behind her Wordl War II veteran dad's familiar and taciturn persona. Her colorful, historically detailed art re-creates the wartime period expressively, and this first in a trilogy inspires curiosity and empathy for those who serve but don't talk about it'much. Everything is connected, and the past is never just the past. Book 2 is due in October. Older teens and up.-Martha Cornog, Philadelphia (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
Publishers Weekly Review
In what is obviously a labor of love, Tyler tells the story of her father's time during WWII and her parents' early relationship, skillfully interweaving it with Tyler's own story. We see her as an adult artist and mother, creating the book even as she deals with tumult in her own life and marriage. This first volume in what will be a trilogy about her father's life, and her own, provides a moving, personal portrait of one member of what's become known as "the greatest generation." Tyler's use of colored inks gives the line drawings an inviting depth of emotion, creating lush worlds of WWII, the house where Tyler raises her daughter and 1950s suburbs. The drawings speak with an even greater richness thanks to the evocative words that appear within and around them, commenting upon and adding to the action portrayed in the panels. An important contributor to independent comics since the 1980s, Tyler has made a name for herself with the quirky warmth of her autobiographical stories, and this wonderful book is a thoughtful work that greatly adds to the language of the graphic memoir. (June) (c) Copyright PWxyz, LLC. All rights reserved
School Library Journal Review
Gr 10 Up-As she reached middle age, newly single and with a teenage daughter, Tyler decided to explore her father's long-unspoken experiences as a GI during World War II. Unlike Alan Cope in Emmanuel Guibert's Alan's War (Roaring Brook, 2008), Tyler found herself dragging recollections from him and realized that she was forcing him to face traumas he had never shared with his family. As she sets down the record here, she also recounts the father she grew up with, how his wartime experiences may have molded him into the parent she knew, and her current life. Both visually and narratively, Tyler keeps all these threads nicely wound into an account that carries readers along and shows how various pasts inform the present, how vulnerable parents can be, and how wartime can create minefields later in life. Her gently colored artwork is expressive and goes far to bring eras of the past to life through dress, hairstyles, and dance moves. Budding artists will appreciate Tyler's design elements, including palette choices and the use of her parents' scrapbooks as source materials. Beyond attracting teens interested in their grandparents' lives in young adulthood, the story here will touch those who are just realizing that the older people they think they know have their own burdens and secrets.-Francisca Goldsmith, Halifax Public Libraries, Nova Scotia (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.
Booklist Review
*Starred Review* When, after a lifetime of silence, Tyler's father finally opened up about his World War II experiences, it also opened the door for the alt-comics veteran finally to produce a work that fully demonstrates her considerable artistry. The backbone of the book is a pair of sepia-tone scrapbooks based on her father's reminiscences of basic training, courtship of her mother, and deployment to North Africa. Its vital tissue consists of the surrounding passages relating Tyler's childhood and her present-day struggles raising her daughter after the dissolution of her marriage. At its heart is Tyler's growing realization of how her upbringing by her emotionally distant, taciturn father colored her own subsequent relationships a demonstration of how the costs of war are exacted beyond the lives of its participants. Tyler's fluid, expressive line work, complemented by subtly overlaid watercolors, gives ideal visual expression to a narrative that's at once sensitive and hard-nosed. This initial volume of a planned trilogy is Tyler's first book-length effort, but decades of drawing mostly autobiographical stories have honed her skills, enabling her to produce a work that ranks in quality with the graphic memoirs of Marjane Satrapi (Persepolis, 2003) and Alison Bechdel (Fun Home, 2006).--Flagg, Gordon Copyright 2009 Booklist
Summary
The first graphic novel from C. Tyler - and sure to be one of the most acclaimed books of the year. Telling the story of the 50-something author's relationship with her World War II veteran father, and how his war experience shaped her childhood and affected her relationships in adulthood. The title refers not only to the name of her parents' courtship song from that era, but also to the many challenges the author encountered in uncovering the difficult and painful truths about her dad's service - challenges exacerbated by her own tumultuous family life.
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